You have enemies. You have enemies that want you and your children dead. You have enemies you need to fight. Your well-intended desire to “win them over” through niceness is a weapon they wield against you. They manipulate your long-conditioned desire to avoid conflict. They know that you are terrified of offending anyone since that will negatively affect church attendance. And so, they have rolled over you. They’ve destroyed your culture. They’ve now made you an exile in your own country. You are not going to “winsome” your way out of this. You can choose to remain silent out of cowardice, or you can begin to fight an evil ideology that could not be in more stark rebellion against the Creator of Heaven and Earth.